Have You Ever Felt Abandoned?
At some point in life, we all face moments of abandonment—whether it’s by friends, family, or circumstances. That feeling of being left behind, forgotten, or isolated is something many of us can relate to. But here’s the good news: as believers, we are never truly alone.
The Holy Spirit, our Helper, was given to us by Jesus so that we would never experience true abandonment. He is with us in our struggles, in our victories, and in the moments when we feel lost.
Returning to What We Know
When people feel abandoned, the natural tendency is to return to what is familiar—even if it is not what is best for us. We see this pattern in life when individuals go back to toxic relationships, destructive habits, or negative thinking simply because they find comfort in the known.
The disciples did the same thing. After Jesus was crucified, they didn’t know what to do. So, they went back to what was familiar—fishing. But Jesus knew that in His absence, they would need help, guidance, and strength beyond their own abilities. That is why He promised the Holy Spirit.
The Holy Spirit: Our Ever-Present Helper
Jesus made a profound promise in John 14:16-17:
“And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of Truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him. You know Him, for He dwells with you and will be in you.”
The Holy Spirit is not just a temporary comforter or an impersonal force. He is God’s presence living within us, guiding, empowering, and strengthening us for every battle we face.
Who is the Holy Spirit?
- He Was Present From the Beginning – The Holy Spirit was not created when Jesus left the earth. He was always part of God’s divine plan. In Genesis 1:2, we see that “the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters” before creation was even formed.
- He is Co-Equal With the Father and the Son – Matthew 28:19 affirms that we are to baptize believers in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. This confirms His divine nature and authority.
- He is Always Present – Psalm 139:7-10 reminds us that we can never flee from God’s Spirit. Whether in the depths of despair or the highest mountains of joy, He is there.
- He is the Source of Our Power – 2 Timothy 1:7 says, “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” The Holy Spirit gives us boldness to stand firm in faith, even when the world tries to silence us.
Signs of the Holy Spirit in Our Lives
How do we know the Holy Spirit is active in our lives?
- Obedience to God’s Word – 1 John 2:3 tells us, “And by this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments.” A Spirit-filled believer will desire to follow God’s ways.
- Boldness in Sharing the Gospel – When the Holy Spirit first came upon believers in Acts 2, they immediately began proclaiming the mighty works of God in languages they had never spoken before. When we are filled with the Spirit, we cannot stay silent about God’s greatness.
- Transformation and Power – The Holy Spirit changes us. He strengthens us against sin, convicts us of righteousness, and empowers us to overcome struggles.
Are You Walking in the Power of the Spirit?
Too many believers live as though they are powerless—walking in fear, anxiety, and doubt. But that is not what God intended for His people.
If you are a follower of Christ, you are not abandoned. You are not alone. The Holy Spirit dwells within you, giving you strength, wisdom, and courage for whatever lies ahead.
So, here’s the question: Are you living in the power of the Spirit, or are you walking in the weakness of your own flesh?
It’s time to take hold of the promise Jesus gave us—the promise that we will never be alone, that we have a Helper, a Guide, and a Source of unshakable power. Today, choose to walk in that power and experience the fullness of life that God has called you to.